*Some people will be your friend because of whom you know, your position, the way you look, your possessions. But the only real friends are the people who will be your friends because they like you for how you are inside. *

Boyfriend. 

* A boyfriend should complement you and make you a better person, not become your other half. You have to uphold your identity in a relationship and have your own life outside of each other. This is very important to having a healthy relationship and to survive a breakup. You cannot be afraid of being alone. It is nice to have a boyfriend to do things with and to share a part of your life with, but you must have a foundation if he should happen not to be there anymore. Breakups are hard regardless. We all need our sob time, our container-of-ice cream time, and our curl-into-bed-and-feel-sorry-for-ourselves time. But we need to pick ourselves up, sometimes with the help from our friends or families, and get back out in the world. Realize the world doesn't stop because you are hurting, and it will continue to go wether you choose to join it or not. Do the things you always enjoyed doing, with or without a boyfriend. *

Life.

*Life is about who you love and who you hurt. Its about how you feel about yourself. Its about trust, happiness, and compassion. It's about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These are choices about what life's about.*